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22nd August 2014

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explosions in my room

i smoked five cigarettes this morning instead of sleeping.
i wanted to see something catch fire in a way that i couldn’t.
i am still waiting to see something burn
but my heart is encased in a body of water
and no matter how much tar i suck into my lungs
i can’t help but sound like the ocean
down in the trenches
filled with whale song.

i walked 13 blocks today just so i could stay on the phone.
i didn’t feel lost because these streets have memories now too.
my feet don’t remember anything but pain
now that my shoes have scuffed themselves enough
to leave my legs hanging sideways.
i was hoping to find a place that i could sit
maybe take a load off the conversation
but curbs don’t hold my weight the same way
when my spine curves enough to make my whole body sag.
it’s crazy to think that there are some
that still call me strong.

i held an old man’s hand today without touching him.
when he was flat on his back
the crowd on the sidewalk not sure if he was breathing
and i told them to use their eyes instead of their panic.
observe how his belly moves
watch as his tongue shoves out his dentures
the way we are pushing through all the fake replacements
of the lives we once lived.
the way i am pushing past your bodies
to ask with my eyes if he can smile.
and he does.

while i waited for the ambulance to come
i hoped he would form his sentences clearer
even though i’m sure this is as good as it gets
everyone thinking he must’ve been drunk
on his way home from the grocery store
while i can sense the blood pooling at the back of his skull.
and i told him he would be okay.

i prayed last night without knowing what to say.
i hoped that someone upstairs would hear me
and maybe rearrange my words to fit their meaning
because i had become so weary of explaining
what has been going on.

the apartment looks just fine and the building shows no sign of struggle.
but on the inside of everything is another fight completely.
it is in the quiet spaces that i can hear violence
where my head never hit the radiator
and my fists never met his jaw.
here we walk on eggshells under the carpet of professionalism
and hold our heads high even when we are worried about our necks.
someone is counting the money
but nothing makes much sense
and i hardly ever see the change.

i am working
brick after brick
mile after tedious mile
to bring some self rightous
self appointed king
down to his tomb.

20th August 2014

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i am posting this because it makes me feel like someone is listening.

i come here most often when i need

when i think
when it’s too much.

i’m scared and lonely but not lonely enough.
i know i should sleep.
i know this is like every other night, when i should’ve slept hours ago.
i should have come home and dropped myself into a corner and not gotten out until the sun rose.

i don’t know if i can take this anymore.
no, not life.
just this part of it.

i don’t like using i.
perhaps that is just because i don’t like thinking of myself
am i losing touch with who i am?
yes.
without any doubt.
i don’t know who this is.

but i’m afraid i’m not making decisions
anymore
not for me
or the person i thought i was
or the person i want to be

i need more than a day off.
i need more than a few days off.
i need out.
it’s scary in here. i don’t know if i mean just my head or my room or this apartment or this city or this job

i’m afraid this sounds too much like a suicide letter
and i’m scared because i was going to start telling the people i love how much i love them.
i hope you know.
i hope we’ve talked about how much i love you and how much i worry to the point where you’re tired of hearing it.
or maybe not tired, but you wish you could hear more
or you wish it wasn’t so far

i hope i’ve told you that i care about you enough for you to understand that i can’t care any /more/ than i do. i am physically incapable of actually giving more
even when i’m receiving.

i feel selfish.
these are just feelings and there is no story and i feel sorry for it and i shouldn’t
what the fuck am i doing not sleeping?
i’m scared i won’t wake up for work on time.
i’m scared, every time i close my eyes, that i’m forgetting to do something or i could’ve done more or that i said the wrong thing at the wrong time
maybe i’m still not good enough
isn’t that a fucked up thought to have?
but i’m dragging my weight because i’m pulling so much more than my own now.

i can’t be trusted with money.
this scares me.
it scares me because right now, as much as i hate to admit it, money is my ticket out of here. wherever the fuck that is right now.
it scares me because it’s so easy to spend it on trying to feel better right now. it scares me because i spend it on trying to figure out where and how to spend it. it’s fucking stupid that i should spend money to exist. that we, any of us, should spend money to eat and feel safe and be warm or not over heat or store our food or whatever the fuck we do in convenient civilization.

am i the culmination of all my hopes and dreams in the past 25 years? maybe i haven’t even been dreaming that long. maybe i’ve been dreaming longer than that. maybe this is me stripped of them entirely and i’m walking through a nightmare.
again.

THIS IS NOT ANOTHER POEM.
all of the poetry i’ve ever written was me gently knocking on the front door of the houses around me when i haven’t even stepped off my own porch.
i’m still back there, you know. on sunset avenue, spitting nonsense into the street and wishing the tulips would remember to bloom. i’m still back in twinbrook, wishing the walls were thicker and thinner at the same time so that i could paste up my feelings and sort them out one by one.
everything is a mess. i am my past coming to haunt me, already arrived and spooking me out.

if i were to walk away. leave all the trappings of this life, my keys, my wallet with my stupid identification, my bed with the stained sheets i’ve had since i was probably 18 or younger, the cookies and the trash the cigarettes and the stupid fucking hippie skirts that i hang onto like my past will give me more than an anchor but some kind of solace—-if i were to just leave in those god damn tevas that my boyfriend hates and i love so stupidly (because the tan line is so hopelessly /not/ what the summers of my youth looked like and maybe they won’t fall off when i run away) and lock up my hair like it was only two years ago, maybe i’d hit a dream that i’d written in a poem once that no one seemed to like because it was poorly crafted and i didn’t know how to write a runaway letter to the world. i didn’t know how to say that “off the grid” was more than a fad but what i’d been hoping i’d fall into as i grew up.

am i a grown up? AM I AN ADULT YET?
i’m going to be 26 in about a month and i can’t think of a single thing i’ve done that was more than small town accomplishment. the things i’ve achieved are so little and so lightly celebrated that i clung to them wishing they’d grow a little bigger and maybe i’d be a rockstar or an astronaut or a beautiful black woman with a beautiful family.

it’s stupid to wish you could be things that you can’t be, right? it’s stupid to wish you were something that was endangered. maybe i am stupid. maybe i should’ve indulged in my love for martial arts instead of walking away over a stupid promise. maybe i’ve made some poor fucking decisions and i regret every last one of them.
maybe i miss all the people that moved away from me and are never coming back and will never love the same things we used to love together and our conversations will become stale and too fragile to make new. maybe when i cry over things that i’ll never get back it isn’t because i want them back but because i feel like i never really had them all that much in the first place. maybe i’m feeling sorry for myself and this is just pointless.


i guess before i sleep, i should really say that i’m tired and i miss you. i don’t think i mean you like you think i mean you. i think i mean that you is an endless everchanging non-entity of not-me. i miss not-me. i wish i didn’t have to pay attention to myself and learn that i am not supposed to kick myself in the face when i’m laying in the dirt. i wish that when i paid attention to other people it wasn’t for money or for the sake of being loved or the need to be close to something that isn’t nearly as broken as i know i’ve become. i wish i didn’t see myself as so broken.
i wish i wasn’t falling apart.
i wish i wasn’t this way anymore.
i’m tired.

16th January 2014

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if i don’t get to pet a small animal today, i might scream.

21st July 2013

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I’m going to have a long talk with you soon, tumblr. Don’t get too excited, though, I don’t know if what I’ve got to say is actually any good.

20th July 2013

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It is likely I will die next to a pile of things I was meaning to read.

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Accurate.

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1st July 2013

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Loser Slam 2013 National Slam Team →

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11th June 2013

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hope and determination

i discovered recently that when i smoke cannabis, it is not fair to say that what i experience is a hallucination, but that i am suddenly remembering the gifts that i received when i was born and had utilized relatively often until the age of 12. i was 7 when i explained that indeed i could see aura and points of light on the body. if only i could have explained it that way. perhaps i have always been able to circumvent the english language, even to my own disadvantage. the flourishes and the fast-forward blooming montages of my backflipping verbs and fluidity of my adjectives were already walking the trapeeze across my jaw. my brain had been wildly awake, to the point of speechlessness. i simply didn’t have the vocabulary to express anything that i was experiencing. how many 7-year-olds in a middle class (reform) jewish american home would know that there is a demographic that believes god is blue? (perhaps it was my own silly joke that robin williams in alladin is a freaking god? or my misunderstanding? hmm.) the number is relatively small, and smaller still for seeing chakras. talk about being chosen, my blue god had deemed me ready for a pretty fascinating ride. i retained my high awareness until i was teetering out of my teens, a time when a large chunk of information was coming from the bottomless pit of the internet. i suppose i haven’t lost it, as i still can’t seem to formulate a thought without some part of it being metaphor or somehow related to vibrations. let’s just assume that i, just like you and your neighbor and pretty much life as we know it, is a largely metaphysical being living out conscious life in the third dimension. (if i don’t leave it there, i’m pretty sure this will be an entirely different monologue or whatever it is i’m producing.)

luckily for me, i have a very cool sense of organization. think the scene in the matrix when they load a shit ton of gun racks into their stock room—-that’s kind of what my mind looks like, on a good day. now what i’m getting at is that there is a clear distinction between a “good day” and something as horrifying as “the Sads.” the former is obviously when my brain is functioning up to or above par. (beyond par? below par? isn’t lower than par better in golf? something like that.) the latter is characterized as emotional, mainly because there has been a malfunction in logical computations. in other words, the start is the onslaught of information. 

a quick example of how this works is explained in one of my favorite memes, stating that a woman’s mind feels like a web browser with 3,000 tabs open all the time. (it’s actually kind of accurate, i spent a half hour closing tabs on my physical computer today) imagine each of those tabs are a thought process triggered by an observation, subconscious and conscious. but kind of like the broomstick in fantasia, my brain is not well acquainted with limits. so information about the world, from the mundane to the cosmic, come flooding into my head. the problem is not that i am incapable of sorting through this data but my inability to prioritize any of it quickly enough. i have realized, with enough observation, that this is one of the triggers for a negative emotional response—-panic erupts, suddenly my brain is too overwhelmed to even enjoy indulgences.

the start is the confusion. that’s definitely the cycle i’ve been in for years. and since i tend to learn my lessons the hard way, i have developed a series of maladaptive responses to handling this depression. it isn’t just chemical, seratonin and dopamine misfiring in my brain telling me that i’m a bad human being and that death looks attractive. but it isn’t just mental, where i am beating myself up for logical mistakes and refusing to forgive myself. and it isn’t just spiritual, where i’ve lost touch with the gifts and have fallen away from my relationship with the universe. i have to treat all three simultaneously. my first bout of deep depression was one of the first times i ever felt cut off from “my powers” and that rings true for every time that followed. 

as far as treatment is concerned, i know i need mundane routine. i need meditation—meditation is, like yoga, not something you do when you’re “ready” for it but something that makes you “ready” for everything else. structure is something that i need in my life, not necessarily a 9 to 5 gig, but realistic understanding that there is a reason to wake every morning.

while this is a practice i need to make for myself, there is a lot of logical and emotional work to be done. perhaps the right phrasing is logical determination and emotional understanding? what i mean is that there are coping mechanisms that i have created growing up that aren’t the most positive reactions to the world. i need to learn to limit my intake of information before the flood freezes me. these aren’t moral failings on my part, just a need for an upgrade in perception. kind of like the anti-virus software i need to update…

1st June 2013

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my life is a joke.

28th May 2013

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i feel like everything that has ever mattered to me has disappeared or evaporated.

i don’t have the will to move.

i must force myself to not be constantly reduced to tears.

i’m trying.

i swear.

28th May 2013

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it has been a real long time…

i don’t know how to start this, so…

anyone that knows me in some capacity (especially outside of the poetry community) knows that when i start writing long diatribes, it’s probably because i’m depressed.

hi. i’m really fucking depressed.

so let me outline a couple things.

1-i’ve been off my meds for a little under a month. i’ve been prescribed abilify and lexapro to treat bipolar. 

2-my mother can no longer financially support me. after losing her job (on her fucking birthday) in january, she made it very clear that she could no longer buy me food to eat or medication. the plot thickens.

3-i have no job. the last employer i had fired me in december for being unable to come in consistently on time. most of my previous employers can say this. i suppose this goes along with my diagnosis.

4-i will no longer be living at my current residence as of saturday. my mother stated months ago that i would need to find another place to live due to her financial hardship. and now the time has come.

have i mentioned that i am in a depressive cycle? see, it is not that i have refused to attempt to procure employment or seek residency elsewhere. well, less so on the latter. all four of these stressors add up to three weeks of severe depressive symptoms. long sleeping periods, inability to focus, hopelessness, wandering the house, forgetting to eat, irrational and irresponsible behavior. fun stuff, if you ask me. i’m obviously flourishing in it.

a few friends have offered places to sleep and my mother has mentioned that if i can’t find somewhere, i may be allowed a few days respite in the guest room…until she moves.

a few good things have arisen in the past 3 weeks. i am seeing who my real friends are, people who genuinely want to be there for me during some of my rougher days, folks i can rely on for comfort but more importantly—are willing to give me a decent shove in a positive direction.

i made it onto my local slam team. which is really achieving a dream/goal. i’ve spent the last three years fervently supporting and writing and trying and connecting and learning….and now i’ve made it. it feels like the only good thing i have right now and i have to hang on to it.

and realizing that i’ve committed myself to something bigger than just my aspirations has gotten me out of bed. probably the only thing that has gotten me out of bed. it’s woken me in the middle of the night with worry. but it has not launched me to action…and i’m terrified nothing can. not even my impending homelessness.

i’m spending a lot of time shoving aside gritty, sad, destructive thoughts, the ideas that lead me into darkness or tell me that i’m actually wasting time by living are signs that my brain chemistry is still trying to commit mutiny. this is my brain without drugs.

the problem with being a creative person is that it goes beyond just “i hate myself and i want to die” kind of shit. sure, those thoughts are there, but they’re easy to shake off. it’s when they start manifesting as utter disappointment and the culmination of those thoughts rationalize hatred and death….those are the ones that get tricky to run from.

i feel isolated and unwanted. unworthy. just plain stupid. confused and hurt. and the problem with these feelings is that they are CONSTANT. it isn’t just triggered by one thing here and there…it is all the time. i wake up and feel like no one would ever want to waste a minute acknowledging my presence. and why should they? i don’t have anything to offer but poetry that doesn’t say anything important. i have somehow managed to make even the art i create something disgusting.

my reaction to this? well, other than sleeping, i spend my time fantasizing about going away and starting fresh. walking away from my disappointments and never walking the same streets again. even this reaction is unhealthy. sure, it’s good to dream, but it’s still a more extreme emotion disguised as hope. (it isn’t hope.)

i’m going to spend the next four days trying. and that means pushing. really hard. i haven’t had a structured day in many moons. i will be pushing myself to wake up, shower, eat, and get to packing. i will be pushing myself to not smoke cigarettes especially because i still have a head cold. i will be pushing myself to have all the conversations that are necessary at this stage, even if i get upset. i will push myself past the crying. i will push myself past the anger and the confusion and the frustration and the loneliness. something good has to come out of this and if i need to push all summer long, then at least i’ll build up that muscle.

i have pushed myself before. it isn’t pushing out of depression. it is functioning out of necessity. it is not happiness. it is not a cure. it doesn’t answer the fact that i will probably want to sob at the drop of a hat or feel that my friends don’t want me around. but it will assure that i will see the day where i don’t feel this way.

don’t get me wrong, i love living. i love life. i love the beauty of the world and all the marvelous art and people and adventures that are out there. bipolar isn’t a treat. it isn’t some special free ticket that says i get to sleep in because i’m having a bad day. it is a disorder. it is an invisible illness and i have been fighting it every day for as long as i can remember. but i will not let it win. i can’t. i have too much to do.

i feel a little better after having sat down and said all these things. i’ve needed a place to sort out my troubles for a long time. having a blog can get to be a burden at times, but to abandon journaling altogether seems to be a rather poor idea. my friends may get tired of my bullshit, but the blank page never gives a fucking shit. and that’s better than any unsolicited advice or hallmark card nonsense or sympathy. i just need to fucking talk sometimes. occasionally it may be on the internet. other times it might be into the wind.

-d

6th April 2013

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i know this all too well.

i know this all too well.

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19th February 2013

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don’t panic.

my throat is filled with acidic bile today.

i feel like there is something terribly wrong with everything around me and i can’t put my finger on what. i kind of wish there was something blatantly wrong so i could point at it and go, “THERE! THAT’S THE THING!” i wouldn’t need to make it go away, but at least i could identify it. there’s something about a problem being unknown that will make any person uneasy. the unknown is a natural fear.

i suppose it’s just standard, regulation emptiness. which i’ve been feeling for a while, just not to this extent and not this isolated.

so fuck the internet. fuck facebook and twitter and okcupid. and when i say “fuck the internet”, i don’t mean “whip it out and stick it in” but make it cry out in pain.

we plaster our anguish all over these little sections of the web, socially and mentally masturbating to the rhythm of the latest hot track. not much has changed since the days of livejournal except it’s easier and more acceptable to do.

i’m not this cynical, i swear, i’m just having a bad rainy day.

i have found no relief. there’s never enough time to stave off the stress and not enough substances to stave off the responsibility. i find myself standing listless in hallways and staring into refrigerators, but it’s not food that i’m hungry for.

give me a real connection. one that doesn’t burn itself at both ends. one that can be quiet and simple and clear.

the only constant i have is myself.